What I say about Love

Falling in love make you vulnerable but it teaches you new things about yourself and matures you for future situations not just other relationships. Its only scary to fall if no one is gonna catch you and when you’ve been mistreated its kind of hard for those wounds to heal or you to forget it. You just have to learn how to make discussions using both your head and heart because sometimes you know whats better but your heart is left wondering and even though people say follow your heart sometimes its better to use common knowledge. Men…well boys rarely mature until they’re a lot older or get a reality check of some sort from somewhere which is rare because it usually occurs after you have given your all and finally decided to give up. In my opinion never go back to a past en devour that you didn’t fully welcome into your space(heart) simply because you left it there for a reason and it didn’t work for other reasons…and you need to explore the better possibilities. You need to surround yourself with different groups of people that inspire the best of you. You can’t be closed minded either you have to embrace new and better possibilities. You are a reflection of your environment just remember that and love is no different. So basically if you look in the trash for something chances are you become the disposable but if you look in the sand for something chances are you might find a real treasure. Love is in the eye of the beholder but if the other fails to see it in time that’s just something you must let go of unless you can unlock its codes without tearing yourself into pieces…..and remember you can’t force something that doesn’t want it…..<3